What to tell someone when they think they re a failure
Let me remind you of something:It takes lots of little steps to be able to break free of your broken self.This step should also be done as part of your preparation.It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure. —colin powell.Try to hold the discussion somewhere that is neutral.
Listen quietly, letting them get all of their emotions out about the failure.Something recently triggered a bad memory and i was looking over an article on a site that i generally avoid (the site's tendency towards gossip and badPretend you're the stupid one.Tell them that they're not, and that statement is utter nonsense.Going to bed with their jeans/button up shirt still on.
If you're focused on proving someone wrong, it's probably all about your ego.If someone thinks they're ugly, one of the kindest things you can do is just reaffirm them that they are not in any way, shape or form.They have nothing to talk about or don't give any opinions.It's natural to feel defensive when receiving feedback.18:15) let me begin by saying i know i'm wrong.
The hero and the sidekick. —laurence shames.As a result they never put in the effort to succeed or are always looking for signs that prove what they are doing won't work.Do the thing you feel is impossible, i bet you can do it.This response will allow you to drastically boost someone's confidence, as it can directly lead to making a thoughtful compliment.Remember your body language too.